This year I had the most
unique experience of my life. It taught me the true meaning of being unvanquished
in the face of all atrocities. It gave me power; it gave me strength to endure.
Yes, I returned home with a renewed understanding of the word “APARAJITA” … The undefeated!
Autumn brings in the mammoth
celebration of DURGA PUJA festival in Bengal! My friend Partho Banerjee knew
that I do not prefer to be amid a lot of crowd. Thus, before the festivities
began, I got a phone call from him with an invitation to visit Kolkata for a
couple of days. He wanted me to meet APARAJITA. He didn’t say much and kept me wondering
about his intentions. It has been a long time since we last met and thus I accepted
the invitation. In my wildest imagination, I thought that perhaps he wanted me
to meet his lady love! As he remained tight lipped, didn’t probe further. I
took a leave from office and packed my bags for a quick vacation.
I arrived in Kolkata by
an early morning flight and Partho met me with a warm welcome. The crimson hues
of the autumn sun had flooded the corners of Kolkata. The mega city was all set
for the biggest event of the year! The day was that of “Mahalaya”, a very
special day. It is a day that pronounces the descent of Mother Durga on earth,
from her abode in Kailash, to bestow her blessings on mortal earthlings.
Traditionally, it marks the end of Pitru-Paksha
and the beginning of Devi-Paksha, the
fortnight of the Mother Goddess! First, Partho took me to his home where I was
greeted with an abundance of love and warmth from his family. I had a sumptuous
breakfast and was all rejuvenated with positive energy.
Partho finished his food
and said, “Come Pravin, let’s go. We have a little travel before I introduce to
APARAJITA.”
“Yes, let us go and meet
your new girlfriend!” I replied with a chuckle. Partho smiled back dryly.
I was still in the dark
about what Partho intended to do, but followed him without asking any further
questions. It gave an adventurous feel and I enjoyed every moment. The air
carried a mild chill and the sweet smell of autumn was everywhere. Partho drove
me in his small car and the two of us headed through the streets of Kolkata,
which was getting the final touches of the decorations. Time flew by and we
moved out of the city and headed along the highway.
After an hour Partho
told me, “Pravin, we are in Rupaligarh. This is a small town near Kolkata” he
pointed towards a medium sized house, girdled inside a brick-wall boundary and
said, “that is our destination…”
The car went inside and
both of us got out. My initial observation told me that it was perhaps a school
or a crèche. Within the boundary wall was a large plot with a beautiful garden
and a three-storied house in the center. We walked past a few men and women who
were busy working inside the garden. They smiled at us as we passed. I didn’t know
why, but I had a weird feeling from the look on their faces. Partho seemed to know
everything about the place. He escorted me straight inside the house and as we
got in everything became crystal clear!
Inside the large hall
were about fifty children. Yet, they were not ordinary kids. They were special.
Aged between five and fifteen, perhaps, these kids brought tears to my eyes.
However, that was not the end. The people who were caring for these little angels
were special too! I understood that I was standing amid a mini LGBT community!
I look at Partho with a lot of questions in my eyes.
Partho was waiting for
the moment. He softly spoke, “Welcome to APARAJITA, the undefeated community!
Pravin, this organization is APARAJITA and I am a member here. We are a group
of LGBT who have come together to form this NGO. We take care of children,
special ones who are suffering from terminal diseases like cerebral palsy or
autism, but whose parents do not have the financial means to support their
treatment. The members of APARAJITA are professionally well-established in
their respective professional careers and we fund this organization with our own
money. The one thread that binds us together is that we all belong to what the
world has labelled as the LGBT community!”
I was speechless. Only
tears rolled down from my eyes. One by one a few members gathered around us.
Partho introduced them to me, “Pravin this is Vikram, he is lawyer. This is
Suhana, she is an author. That is Chumki…”
I shook hands with
everybody and was in a halo of what I was seeing. Finally, Partho introduced, “And
this is Chameli, the senior-most member of APARAJITA.”
Chameli spoke in a husky
yet composed voice, “Many in this world despise the way we are. Yet, we are
children of the same Almighty. Today, is Mahalaya, the beginning of the fortnight
of the Mother Goddess, Maa Durga. Just like every other person, we are also children
of the Mother! The Mother doesn’t discriminate. Thus we are all born equal. We
created APARAJITA, as an initiative to bring together the so called LGBT folks,
a label that the world has given us. However, like everybody we are humans and
have the same blood and the same warmth in our hearts…”
Partho added, “Today the
world no longer shuns us. However, a lot of awareness and acceptance is still
needed and we would work towards that. There are many uneducated people who
still despises the LGBT and the mentally challenged community and that is the
reason we have formed APARAJITA, to remain undefeated against all odds!”
We spoke for about an
hour and I could only utter, “I salute you guys! APARAJITA is truly undefeated!
It not only fights and strives towards your cause, it has given me a lesson too.
I will return home much stronger to fight my terminal amnesia with an invigorated
energy!”
Chumki came forward and
tied a friendship band on my hand and said, “We are all equal in the eyes of
Durga Maa… May this fortnight of the Mother Goddess unite us all across the
world!”
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As I sit inside my
bedroom and write this journal tonight, my mind floats away to the remote town
of Rupaligarh, to APARAJITA and to each member of the organization and I pray
to the almighty that world becomes a beautiful place for everyone to live in
harmony.
Wow very touching and a real inspiration ! I could feel what it would have been to meet each of them and see the sparkle in the eyes... thanks for sharing. Shubho Mahalaya
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your encouraging words of appreciation!
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